You may be here because something in your inner life feels unsettled.
Whether it feels dramatically wrong or just unclear.
You might be carrying multiple desires, responsibilities, or convictions, and unsure how to move forward without betraying something important.
Often, this kind of inner complexity appears when a spiritual life is shifting, especially for people who are thoughtful, responsible, and used to carrying a lot on their own.
Ways People Begin This Work
Individual Spiritual Direction
Individual spiritual direction is a space for attending carefully to your spiritual life over time.
People often come when something feels unsettled or unfinished, even if they cannot yet name why. In sessions, you are invited to speak freely about your experiences, questions, desires, frustrations, and faith without needing to arrive at conclusions or present a coherent story.
The focus is not on fixing or solving, but on developing a more trusting relationship with your interior life and with God. Many people find that, over time, they become less reactive, more curious, and more confident in how they discern next steps, even when uncertainty remains.
Discernment Coaching
Discernment coaching is designed for leaders and executives facing significant decisions who want to approach them with care, integrity, and spiritual grounding.
This work focuses on clarifying what decision needs to be made, identifying an appropriate timeframe for discernment, and engaging a structured Ignatian process to listen, test, and reflect before moving toward a decision.
The process combines clear framing, disciplined reflection, and spiritual attentiveness that respects responsibility and consequence. The goal is not certainty, but a grounded decision that can be inhabited with greater peace and accountability.
Couple's Spiritual Direction
Couples’ spiritual direction is a formational process that helps partners learn how to have spiritually attentive and connected conversations with one another.
The work unfolds in two phases. In the first phase, couples learn specific conversational skills that invite spiritual connection, deep listening, and honest reflection. Each session includes a guided spiritual conversation with one partner while the other observes and notices how the conversation unfolds.
In the second phase, couples use these skills directly with one another. I take the role of observer and offer support as the couple practices listening and speaking in new ways they can continue beyond our work together.
This is not couples therapy. The focus is on cultivating shared spiritual attentiveness and relational presence.
I come to this work with a deep, personal commitment to the practice of spiritual direction and discernment, with training in this work, and a steady commitment to walking with people without rushing them toward premature conclusions.
If you are unsure which of these fits your situation, that is completely okay.
The first conversation is simply a place to begin.
No pressure. No obligation. Just a conversation.
The Exploratory Call
This Call Is:
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A 30-minute conversation by phone or Zoom
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A chance to talk about what’s bringing you here
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Space to ask questions about spiritual direction, discernment coaching, or couples’ direction
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An opportunity to notice whether this work feels like a good fit
This Call Is Not:
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Therapy
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A sales call
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A commitment to ongoing work
Most people who continue after an exploratory conversation begin with a small number of sessions to see how the work feels. Some choose to continue longer-term; others discern that this will be for a specific season. Both are welcome, and there is no expectation to decide immediately.
