You answer the text at 9:47 p.m. with a “Yes” you do not mean, then set the phone face down and feel your jaw tighten before your mind can catch up.   By morning, you will have a reason ready. They are under pressure. You are the one who can handle it. It is only for a season. You care about people, and caring people do not leave others stranded. God tells us to help other people. You may even sound generous when you explain it to yourself. But underneath the explanation is a