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Spiritual Direction


Why Christmas Can Feel Emotionally Heavy (And How to Listen to That Feeling)
For many people, Christmas arrives with a strange mixture of beauty and weight. There may be moments of joy, warmth, or connection. And alongside them, there is often something heavier that lingers beneath the surface. Fatigue. Tenderness. Sadness. Irritability. A quiet sense of being emotionally full in a way that doesn’t feel celebratory. When this happens, people often wonder what they’re doing wrong. Why don’t I feel more grateful? Why am I anxious on Christmas Day?
Ben Shoup
Dec 24, 20253 min read


Dream Journaling: A Spiritual Practice for Listening to the Inner Life
Many people tell me their dreams feel different lately. More vivid. More persistent. More emotionally charged. They wake with an image or a feeling that stays with them long after the day begins. Often, the question that follows is simple: Should I be paying attention to this? Dreams don’t arrive by accident. But we’re often left without instructions on how to understand their language. They speak in images, emotions, and scenes that resist tidy explanation. That can ma
Ben Shoup
Dec 17, 20254 min read
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